Family law is among the most emotionally complex areas of legal practice, encompassing deeply personal matters such as relationship breakdowns, child welfare, financial arrangements, and personal safety. For CILEX professionals working in this field, the role is profoundly rewarding. It offers the opportunity to learn and study whilst making a meaningful impact on people’s lives.
What does a family law paralegal do?
Family law paralegals are the lawyers’ assistants – integral from the very beginning of a case right through to its resolution. We’re not just support, we’re part of the engine that keeps everything moving. When brought in early, we help build momentum and maintain it, ensuring the case progresses smoothly and efficiently.
Our role is hands-on and dynamic. We assist with drafting court documents, analysing financial disclosure such as the other party’s bank statements, and preparing court-compliant bundles. We liaise directly with clients, counsel, experts, and third parties, often acting as the bridge between them and the legal team. We help clients feel heard and supported, especially during emotionally charged moments.
We also contribute to strategic thinking, such as helping consider settlement options, anticipating next steps, and ensuring nothing falls through the cracks. Our legal knowledge, practical experience, and emotional intelligence make us indispensable to the team.
Why CILEX is a brilliant route into law
CILEX offers a flexible and inclusive pathway into the legal profession, it’s designed to reflect the realities of real life. For us, and many others, the traditional university route is not accessible. The CILEX route allows you to earn while you learn and gain real experience from day one, while also studying. It allows us to build knowledge and experience in our chosen field much sooner.
CILEX is one of the most diverse legal bodies in the UK, with a high proportion of women and professionals from non-legal backgrounds. It’s a route that opens doors and, importantly, keeps them open.
The CILEX structure is designed to be practical and career-focused. We don’t just study legal theory; we apply it in practice every day, using our knowledge to deliver real-world solutions and support to those who need it most. It is what makes CILEX professionals well-rounded: we understand the law, we understand the client, and we understand the pressures and the application of practice.
Why it matters
Being a CILEX professional at Birketts means that we get to make a real difference not just to our clients but also to the profession. We are part of a growing movement that proves that talent should define our future, not background. Whether it’s helping a parent navigate a difficult child dispute or supporting a client through financial separation, we are there, not just as legal professionals, but as people who genuinely care.
Birketts provides an environment where CILEX professionals can thrive. The firm actively supports alternative routes into law and recognises the value of practice experience. We are given responsibility and the opportunity to grow within a team that values our contribution. There is a genuine culture of learning, encouragement and mentorship. We are supported in our studies and are trusted with the role. Being part of a firm that champions excellence and inclusion means that we are not just building careers, we are helping shape the profession and take client care to the next level.
Whether you are undertaking the chartered paralegal route or progressing to the full CILEX lawyer route, the resilience, dedication and passion of CILEX professionals is something to be proud of.
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The content of this article is for general information only. It is not, and should not be taken as, legal advice. If you require any further information in relation to this article please contact the author in the first instance. Law covered as at September 2025.